Blaming has no positive effect at all, nor does trying to persuade using reason and argument. No matter what side of the argument you are on, you always find people on your side that you wish were on the other side but behind every argument is someone’s ignorance.
That moment, when you realize that you are making a wrong argument but still fight your way to win just for pride sake, you may end-up losing the relationship with that person. The purpose of an argument should not be victory but a progress and to settle an argument; think what is right, not who is right.
Never argue with stupid people, they will drag you down to their level and then beat you with experience. People’s mind are changed through observation and not through argument.
Settle your differences, talk about it, forgive, accept and forget.
This is an excellent article from my archive regarding Cancer which I kept several years ago. This is an article that should be sent to anyone important in your life. You have to fight through some bad days, to earn the best days of your life.
After years of telling people CHEMOTHERAPY is the only way to try and eliminate cancer, Johns Hopkins is finally starting to tell you there is an alternative way. Cancer update from Dr. Johns Hopkins;
Every person has cancer cells in the body. These cancer cells do not show up in the standard tests until they have multiplied to a few billion. When doctors tell cancer patients that there are no more cancer cells in their bodies after treatment, it just means the test are unable to detect the cancer cells because they have not reached the detectable size.
Cancer cells occur between 6 to more than 10 times in a person’s lifetime.
When the person’s immune system is strong the cancer cells will be destroyed and prevented from multiplying and forming tumors.
When a person has cancer it indicates the person has multiple nutritional deficiencies. These could be due to genetic, environmental, food and lifestyle factors.
To overcome the multiple nutritional deficiencies, changing diet and including supplements will strengthen the immune system.
Chemotherapy involves poisoning the rapidly-growing cancer cells and also destroy rapidly-growing healthy cells in the bone marrow, gastro-intestinal tract etc, and can cause organ damage like liver, kidneys, heart, lungs etc.
Radiation while destroying cancer cells also burns, scars and damages healthy cells, tissues and organs.
Initials treatment with chemotherapy and radiation will often reduce tumor size. However prolonged use of chemotherapy and radiation do not result in more tumor destruction.
When the body has too much toxic burden from chemotherapy and radiation the immune system is either compromised or destroyed, hence the person can succumb to various kind of infections and complications.
Chemotherapy and radiation can cause cancer cells to mutate and become resistant and difficult to destroy. Surgery can also cause cancer cells to spread to other sites.
An effective way to battle cancer is to starve the cancer cells by not feeding it with the foods it needs to multiply.
What Cancer Cells Feed on?
SUGAR is a cancer feeder. By cutting off sugar it cuts off one important food supply to the cancer cells. Sugar substitutes like NutraSweet, Equal, Spoonful, etc are made with Aspartame and it is harmful. A better natural substitute would be Manuka honey or molasses but only in very small amounts. Table salt has a chemical added to make it white in color. Better alternative is Bragg’s amines or sea salt.
MILK causes the body to produce mucus, especially in the gastro-intestinal tract. Cancer feeds on mucus. By cutting off and substituting with unsweetened soy milk, cancer cells are being starved.
Cancer cells thrive in an ACID environment. A meat-based diet is acidic and it is best to eat fish, and a little chicken rather than beef or pork. Meat also contains livestock antibiotics, growth hormones and parasites, which are all harmful, especially to people with cancer.
A diet made of 80% fresh vegetables and juice, whole grains, seeds, nuts and a little fruits help put the body into an alkaline environment. About 20% can be from cooked food including beans. Fresh vegetables juices provide live enzymes that are easily absorbed and reach down to cellular levels within 15 minutes to nourish and enhance growth of healthy cells. To obtains live enzymes for building healthy cells try and drink fresh vegetables juice (most vegetables including bean sprouts) and eat some raw vegetables 2 or 3 times a day. Enzymes are destroyed at temperatures of 104 degrees F (40 degrees C).
Avoid Coffee, tea, and chocolate, which have high caffeine. Green tea is a better alternative and has cancer-fighting properties. Water-best to drink purified water, or filtered, to avoid known toxins and heavy metals in tap water. Distilled water is acdic, avoid it.
Meat protein is difficult to digest and requires a lot of digestive enzymes. Undigested meat remaining in the intestines becomes putrefied and leads to more toxic buildup.
Cancer cell walls have a tough protein covering. By refraining from or eating less meat it frees more enzyme to attack the protein walls of cancer cells and allows the body’s killer cells to destroy the cancer cells.
Some supplements build up the immune system (IP6, Flor-ssence, Essiac, anti-oxidants, vitamins, minerls, EFASs etc.) to enable the body’s own killer cells to destroy cancer cells. Other supplements like vitamin E are known to cause apoptosis, or programmed cell death, the body’s normal method of disposing of damage, unwanted, or unneeded cells.
Cancer Cells cannot thrive in an oxygenated environment. Exercising daily and deep breathing help to get more oxygen down to the cellular level. Oxygen therapy is another means employed to destroy cancer cells.
Cancer is a disease of the mind, body and spirit. A proactive and positive spirit will help the cancer warrior be a survivor. Anger, unforgiveness and bitterness put the body into a stressful and acidic environment. Learn to have a loving and forgiving spirit.
Learn to relax and enjoy life even the mind keep telling you had enough but, the heart keep telling don’t give up. Surround yourself with those who make you happy.
Apologizing does not mean you are wrong and the other person is right. It just means you value your relationship more than your ego. Our vanity is hardest to wound precisely when our pride has been wounded.
Too often, we don’t realize what we have until it’s gone. We’re too stubborn to say “SORRY, I WAS WRONG.” It seems we hurt the one closes to our heart and we let the most foolish things tear us apart.
When you’ve done something wrong, admit it and be sorry because no one in history ever choked to death from swallowing his pride.
Be soft and do not let the world make you hard.
With life comes choice. The choices are yours and yours alone, take pride of what you do and the choices you made.
We all live under the same sky but we don’t all have the same horizon. Life moves pretty fast and if you don’t stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.
Life is so much brighter when we focus on what truly matters. The reason we struggle insecurity is because we compare our behind-the-scenes with everyone else’s highlight reel.
Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass, its about learning to dance in the rain. When life dragging you back with difficulties, just imagine its going to launch you into something great, remember that an arrow can only shot by pulling it backward.
Mistakes are proof that you are trying but don’t allow your wounds to transform into someone you are not. Sometimes all you take is another chance to make things right.
It is easy to look at people and make judgement about them; their present and their past, but you’d be amazed a pain and tears a single smile hides. What a person shows to the world is only one tiny facet of the iceberg hidden from the sight. And more often than not, its line with cracks and scars that go all the way to the foundation of their soul.
Never judge, learn to respect and acknowledge the feeling of another. If we could look into each others heart and understand the unique challenges each of us faces, by then we could treat each other much more gently with more love, patience, tolerance and care.
Know where you fit in the world of the living, then treat all life as equal in value to yourself. Life doesn’t get easier but you just get stronger.
Success belongs to those who dare to achieve it. Every failure takes you one step closer to success and to those who have success have met with failure many times before since we cannot predict what will happen next to our life but as human beings we have the good intuition to help us be aware of any circumstances.
We all fail at certain instances in our lives the only thing that makes difference is how we manage to stand up, others may choose to fail again. Don’t worry about failure, only worry to the chances you miss when you don’t even try.
If you want something you never had then you maybe start doing something you’ve never done yet. What screw us up in our life is the picture in our head on how it is supposed to be.
Don’t be distracted by criticism, remember the only taste of success some people get is taking a bite out of you. Experience tells you what to do and confidence tells you to do it.
Stress is never a given; we experienced stress or we don’t , depending on what we believe. To experience peace does not mean that your life is always blissful, it means that you are capable of tapping into a blissful state of mind amidst the normal chaos of a hectic life.
Why there is so much stress in life? it’s because we focus too much on improving our lifestyle rather than our life. Reality is the leading cause of stress among those in touch with it. The greatest weapon against stress is our ability to choose one thought over another.
Adopting the right attitude can convert a negative stress into a positive one. When stress is at its highest, just know it can only go down. The less you get attached to your preferences, the less they will become the source of your stress.